Unplanned pregnancy: Barbara Watkins' story

Hi:
My name is Barbara Watkins, and I am the director of the Pregnancy Care Center in Lawrence. Having experienced an unplanned pregnancy at the age of 15, I know the fear and uncertainty this can bring. It is my hope that through the Pregnancy Care Center I can impact the lives of others.

The choice for my unplanned pregnancy was abortion. One of the consequences of this choice was that for almost 30 years it was very difficult for me to have close relationships with people for fear they would find out I had aborted a baby. This fear alienated me and as a result it deteriorated my self-esteem. I experienced a tremendous amount of guilt and shame. One of my greatest struggles had to do with forgiving myself because I knew it was a life that was not allowed to be born. The reason I am speaking about this is because I know first hand the negative effects of abortion, and it is my desire that all women become aware of the truth. While abortion can seem like a simple procedure, it can have a lifetime effect on you. Even if you do not experience any physical complications, the emotional aspects could be with you for your lifetime. But there is hope! Jesus heals and forgives. It is only through God’s restoration process that I am able to offer myself in this service.

As we all know, there are consequences for every action we take. What we do can set into motion a series of events that may continue long after we’re gone. Unfortunately, when we are making a decision, most of us think of only the immediate consequences. These are often misleading because they are short-lived.

You probably don’t know the long-term effects of most decisions you make. But shouldn’t the fact that there will be long-term results cause you to think carefully and seek God’s guidance as you make choices and take action today?

It is my passion to equip women with accurate information so they can make an informed decision that they and their child can live with. If you are hurting from a past abortion, confused about your current pregnancy or just need some information, we are here to serve you.

Thank You,
Barbara Watkins
Director of the Pregnancy Care Center.